You don’t have to put anyone down to prove that you have it all.
You don’t have to make someone feel small in order to make yourself happy.
The true winner is the one who has nothing to prove and can prove their point by not trying to make one.
If you are truly happy, rubbing it in someone’s face is just a pure indication that you really aren’t.
I hope you find what you are looking for, and in the end find true happiness within yourself, not from anyone else.